At home, my regular breakfast consists of a small container of yogurt, a hard-boiled egg and coffee. From the first morning after our arrival in China, I ate breakfast as if it were my last meal. I even sampled more than one kind of roll although I rarely eat bread. An extravagant buffet breakfast is not easy to ignore, but I believe I burned all those calories during our days of walking and climbing and walking some more. I bet hoisting myself up into the bus consumed 1,000 calories, easy.
Sue checked her rash but it still had not improved and her legs and feet were still swollen. There was no pain and she was satisfied with that.
We started the day early to avoid crowds at Liu Garden (the Garden to Linger in), which Jackie, our guide, called The Lingering Garden. Upon entering the grounds, instructions about time and meeting location were dispatched immediately.
“If you need the Happy House, it is there.” Jackie waved in the direction of a low building. We squinted with pinched brows. What?
“Happy House is toilet.” He checked the screen on his cell phone and was gone. We were on our own to wander as we wished. Again.
The garden was small, neat and clean. It seemed there’s no such thing as early. Passages were tight in spots and we had to wait for a turn to pass. We rubbed elbows with lots of other visitors. Lorena lost us when she stopped for a photo opportunity. Not successful in finding us, she headed back to the parking lot where the buses were parked. She saw the French Group’s guide, who then called Jackie and he joined us up together again.
Back on the bus, we settled in for a two-hour ride to Shanghai passing the time napping or talking, sometimes asking Jackie questions.
Once again we were treated to a tourist wonderland of Cashmere / Cashmina factory shopping. The sweaters, shawls etc. didn’t interest me. I noticed the men’s pained faces as if they’d been lined up for a firing squad.
Before we left the factory, a museum stop on the schedule was voted down in favor of more shopping time at the bazaar in the afternoon. Jackie suggested this was a great place for picking up knock-offs which are illegal everywhere.
Silk Embroidery Shop:
This work was the most amazing embroidery I shall ever see. Some was done in 1/64th thickness of a silk strand. I wonder if the workers have good compensation when they go blind. Even with my nose an inch from the finished product, I could have sworn these were paintings. Some were three dimensional and especially the fur on some animals was ultra realistic and breathtaking.
The following is the best link I could find for silk embroidery display (jade is also included)
https://www.flickr.com/photos/45909111@N00/sets/72157607927737804/
Chinese Saying:
He (or she) has a jade face (is good looking)
Jade is highly valued, therefore this is the highest compliment you can pay someone.
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October 10, 2014 at 5:59 pm
Not your grandmother’s embroideries! I could linger in that beautiful garden a while. Love the wisteria. I haven’t been able to get mine to flower. It is ancient but has never bloomed according to the property’s previous owner. They must be male and female and I have a male.
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October 10, 2014 at 7:09 pm
It would have been pleasant and soothing if it hadn’t been for the millions of people there. 😀 😀
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October 10, 2014 at 6:18 pm
What a visual day for you. The gardens are lovely. As for a happy house, I find I need one frequently when I travel. 🙂
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October 10, 2014 at 7:10 pm
Me too. I love the term. After all, I am happy after I visit one, and often. L0( 😛
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October 10, 2014 at 8:21 pm
I love gardens. And happy houses, when appropriate 😉
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October 11, 2014 at 8:23 am
😀 😀 😀
The first time Jackie said Happy House, I wanted to giggle but it’s not a bad description, is it? ❤ ❤
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October 14, 2014 at 10:32 pm
Definitely not, lol. When I went to Italy and my uncle’s house had no indoor (or outdoor) plumbing, I promise you that was the happiest house of all when we got to the ‘city house’ at night. I’d wait for 10 hours at a time back then. It’s a wonder I didn’t end up in the ‘hospital house.’
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October 14, 2014 at 10:43 pm
Oh no. You appreciated the Happy House. 😀 😀 😀
Great label.
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October 15, 2014 at 9:39 pm
Definitely NOT a misnomer, lol.
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October 16, 2014 at 8:56 am
😀 😀 😀 😀 😀 😀
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October 10, 2014 at 6:40 pm
That garden is absolutely beautiful. What a wonderful day with so much richness to feast your eyes upon. So lovely! 🙂
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October 10, 2014 at 7:11 pm
I love flowers and the garden was well maintained. I wish it hadn’t been so crowded. 🙂 Still a lovely day but a L-o-n-g one.
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October 10, 2014 at 6:40 pm
The gardens are lovely! Such a beautiful place. Once again a very enjoyable blog 🙂
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October 10, 2014 at 7:11 pm
I’m pleased you’re enjoying the tour. 🙂 Thanks for coming along.
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October 10, 2014 at 6:51 pm
Just so so wonderful time for Imme to sing to you again!
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October 10, 2014 at 7:14 pm
Thank YOU, Willow. Sweet of you to remember you sent me the previous one as well. Thoughtful of you and generous. I’ve enjoyed Imogen Heap.
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October 10, 2014 at 7:18 pm
I love to share what I like. You have to tell me if I bore you. xx
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October 10, 2014 at 7:24 pm
NOt y.e.t. 😛
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October 10, 2014 at 7:26 pm
Good ❤
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October 10, 2014 at 8:11 pm
Tess this is amazing. The garden pictures intrigued me. Anything with stone calls to me. I loved the silk ‘paintings’. Can you imagine the work, the TIME that went in to those??? I am so sad WordPress, or other entity, isn’t paying me to travel the world and share things like this. Thank you for taking us with you. I so look forward to these posts!
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October 11, 2014 at 8:22 am
Thanks, Colleen. I’m pleased you enjoy my little tour. I still can’t believe I was actually THERE! Blogging about the trip lets me relive the experience over and over again. ❤ ❤
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October 12, 2014 at 9:20 am
I get that. It’s amazing what our world has to offer and the differences between us all. If we all spent the time to learn and enjoy our differences there would be no time for hate and fighting about them.
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October 10, 2014 at 8:22 pm
The collage of garden photos are stunning! What a beautiful spot. I can only imagine how crowded it was.
I’m still worried about Sue’s rash… on pins and needles here. 🙂
I imagine you did burn up a ton of calories keeping your hectic schedule during your travels.
Another stellar post!
Happy Thanksgiving!
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October 11, 2014 at 8:25 am
Thanks so much, Pam. I can’t believe how much I ate. Three BIG meals a day and then I came home and was sick and ate almost nothing for about 5 days. I felt svelte. That’s all gone by the wayside now, though. 😦
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October 10, 2014 at 9:14 pm
WE eat a lot when we travel too but never gain weight. I’m sure it is all the walking. The embroidery is amazing! The lingering garden looks peaceful and lovely.
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October 11, 2014 at 8:28 am
Indeed, the garden had a wonderful peace quality about it. These are RJ’s photos. Mine have people in all of them. Yuck. I guess he had more patience than me. ❤ ❤
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October 10, 2014 at 9:41 pm
I’m worried about Sue’s rash. I hope that worked out. This is like a novel with a plot line running through.
I’m that way about breakfast. Normally, I skip breakfast, start lunch at 11am. If I do eat when I’m out, I eat a lot and then still want lunch!
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October 11, 2014 at 8:32 am
I ate like a horse. I never eat that much in one day. Probably not even in a week at home what I ate in one day during our trip. Didn’t matter if I felt hungry or not. It was time to eat so I always did and never skimped. 😀 😀 And didn’t gain weight. 😮
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October 10, 2014 at 10:58 pm
The gardens are so gorgeous and the embroidery is mind-boggling! The theme that keeps running through all your China stories though is crowds, crowds, crowds, and forced shopping, shopping, shopping, and you seemed to have handled it so well. That would kill me. When we toured the Mediterranean it was the same thing. There were so many people at the Coliseum and the Vatican, I almost committed hari-kari. We were constantly being dumped in the back alleys in Greece and Italy by the tour guides in the middle of shopping bazaars where we had to run the gauntlet of aggressive sales pitches. I almost got robbed in Greece because of it. I guess it’s the same all over, you just have to separate the good from the bad. Your pictures are so lovely.
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October 11, 2014 at 8:37 am
These garden pictures are by one of our group. All my pictures have people in them because there were so many. I hate crowds and walking elbow-to-elbow.
I wasn’t interested in shopping. I buy what I NEED and don’t buy just because. What am I going to do with more STUFF? At my age I’m trying to de-clutter not add to the junk I have already.
That said, all I wanted was a pair of earrings and did buy some but paid way too much for them only because I wanted a souvenir. I’m all about the earrings. ❤
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October 10, 2014 at 11:01 pm
where to start to compliment you. Your style is unique and elegant. Bravo!
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October 11, 2014 at 8:38 am
Thanks so much. This was an experience of a life-time and I get to live it all over again by sharing here. 😛
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October 11, 2014 at 1:07 am
You did amazingly well to capture that unbelievable garden without including people. As such it looks calm, quiet and tranquil, which sadly, you say, it wasn’t. It is interesting that the magic of natural beauty attracts as many people as human creations (buildings, silk embroidery etc).
I was intrigued by the silk tapestries. They are exquisite, but who are they produced for? Tourists? One wonders why so much work/time is put into a product which would or could be sold for the same amount with a lot less input required.
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October 11, 2014 at 8:43 am
These embroidery ‘paintings’ are framed and behind glass. They ARE exquisite art. The women can only work a few hours a day. I can’t thread a regular needle anymore. Of course the ladies (I assume ladies) doing this art are most likely a lot younger than me. 😀 😀
These are not cheap either. One of our group wished they had purchased on of these large ones instead of a 8 by 10″ one.
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October 11, 2014 at 8:44 am
One of our group took the pictures in the garden. Mine all have people in them. I took the ones of the embroidery.
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October 11, 2014 at 1:48 am
Those factory shop visits are real down side of coach travel holidays!
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October 11, 2014 at 8:50 am
I guess everyone wants to push their best products. I’m not one for shopping. I don’t NEED anything. I’m trying to de-clutter my life.
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October 11, 2014 at 2:44 am
What a beautiful garden. Were you tempted to buy a souvenir at all?
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October 11, 2014 at 8:52 am
No, Gilly. I am not interested in ‘stuff’ I did buy some things like the day and night cream, which I am still using and found Amazon carries them and the price is pretty good. Usually I buy what is useful. All I really wanted was a nice pair of cheap earrings like I buy in the $$ Stores her (made in China) but was not successful. I like BIG earrings.
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October 11, 2014 at 8:53 am
Those pictures are not mine. One of our group shared them for the blog Mine have all kinds of people in them.
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October 11, 2014 at 4:26 am
This sounds just amazing. And the photos of the gardens are stunning. China is on my bucket list but for when we are holidaying without children. Thank you for continuing to share your journey!
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October 11, 2014 at 8:57 am
Can’t take credit for the garden pictures. One of our tour group shared these with me. My pictures had people in them. Don’t know how RJ took these. Must have been awfully patient.
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October 11, 2014 at 5:38 am
I’m with you Tess on being very excited by the breakfast buffet while traveling. One needs the energy!
The photos of the gardens are stunning!
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October 11, 2014 at 8:58 am
The garden pictures come by way of RJ, one of our group. I have all kinds of people in mine.
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October 11, 2014 at 6:04 am
Reblogged this on Smorgasbord – Variety is the spice of life and commented:
Day 10 of the trip to China that we have been following via How the Cookie Crumbles – I love the ‘Happy House’ perhaps like us they have all the joke books in the house sequestered in that particular room! Really enjoying the trip vacariously…….
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October 11, 2014 at 6:49 am
I so enjoyed this! The pictures are wonderful. Massively envious!
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October 11, 2014 at 8:59 am
Thank YOU for reading and commenting. I lucked out on this trip. I still think it is the trip of a lifetime. ❤
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October 11, 2014 at 7:21 am
Lovely garden, I think though I would have been entirely put off by the crowds. So far you have been so good, no contributing to the national GPD and buying in the tourist traps! Impressive.
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October 11, 2014 at 9:01 am
I’m not into buying for the sake of it. Nowadays, I buy what I need, like the day and night cream. 😀 A girl has to keep her skin soft, right. I did buy a few things but only what was useful to me. No t-shirts or do-hickeys.
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October 11, 2014 at 10:05 am
Do-Hickeys
Made me giggle. Sorry I just pictured you with a kiss spot on your neck made be a do-hickey.
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October 11, 2014 at 8:23 am
Wow Tess… i’m stunned that those amazing portraits are embroidery! Loved the photos of the garden, so beautiful. Once again you’ve given us a spellbinding travel log. Huge hugs!
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October 11, 2014 at 9:04 am
Thanks so much, Teagan. Glad you’re enjoying.The embroidery is exquisite, especially the three dimensional one of animals where you wanted to touch to see if the whiskers were real, or ear tufts were or fur was.
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October 11, 2014 at 9:11 am
I’d love to have a Bonsai tree but I don’t think it would survive very well here. Being in the mountains, (as small as they are in comparison to the Rockies) I think the winters may be a little too cold for it.
I love all kinds of bread except for white. To my palate, it’s blah. I’m sure it’s a contributer to my weight problems.
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October 11, 2014 at 2:33 pm
beautiful and thoughtful impressions….. and all the walking 😛
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October 12, 2014 at 9:15 am
Lots and lots of walking…and e.a.t.i.n.g.
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October 11, 2014 at 6:36 pm
Amazing embroideries and I love the term happy house – I shall be using that!
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October 12, 2014 at 9:18 am
I really love ‘happy’ house as well. 😀 😀
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October 11, 2014 at 8:28 pm
I love hotel buffet breakfasts, the bigger the better. I also love Jade and silk embroidery accessories etc. And your photos are amazing. Thanks for sharing 🙂
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October 12, 2014 at 9:20 am
You are welcome. The ones of the garden were shared by one of our group. His pictures had no people in them; mine were swarming with people. 😀
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October 12, 2014 at 7:58 pm
🙂 maybe you’re such a “people person”!! Lol!
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October 13, 2014 at 9:11 am
😀 😀 😀
Too bad we can’t do coffee sometime.
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October 13, 2014 at 5:50 pm
Indeed 🙂
You seem to be an hilarious person to be around, always positive and with a good sense of humor. The world needs more like you.
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October 14, 2014 at 7:33 am
😀 😀 😀
I have my days, but don’t we all. Sigh. ❤
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October 21, 2014 at 1:32 pm
Ehehehe!! (Imagine a little Heart here… I don’t know how to display it).
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October 21, 2014 at 5:23 pm
Click < and then 3 without any spaces ❤ ❤
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October 27, 2014 at 6:58 pm
❤ Trying….
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October 27, 2014 at 7:13 pm
It worked no problem.
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October 27, 2014 at 7:48 pm
Cool! 🙂 ❤
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October 28, 2014 at 9:40 am
~(*_~)~~
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October 11, 2014 at 8:39 pm
Stunning embroidery pics! And I kind of like the term ‘happy house’, kind of beat ‘sh#$ house’, lol.
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October 12, 2014 at 9:20 am
I like happy house too. It really does fit better, doesn’t it?
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October 12, 2014 at 10:23 am
Yes, a happier spin on a crappy situation, pun intended, lol. 🙂
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October 13, 2014 at 8:57 am
😀 😀 😀
Seems a few commenters plan to adopt this term.
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October 13, 2014 at 9:24 am
🙂
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October 13, 2014 at 9:38 am
~(*_~)~~
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October 12, 2014 at 2:36 am
Magnificent silk tapestries. I live that lingering garden, how nice it would be to linger, to watch, to write in a place as this. Sorry I havent been around much of late, life has been a little more than hectic. xx
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October 12, 2014 at 2:38 am
*love not live… But I could live there 😊
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October 12, 2014 at 9:26 am
I got that, Jen. Happens to me too. No worries.
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October 12, 2014 at 9:27 am
Thanks sweety
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October 13, 2014 at 7:27 am
~(*_~)~~
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October 12, 2014 at 9:26 am
Aahh. Yes! Especially when all the other people go home. I don’t know how RJ managed all those pictures without hoards of people in them.
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October 12, 2014 at 11:23 am
Trying to catch to catch up on some blog reading this weekend, Tess. I absolutely love the photos. Thanks for sharing them. 🙂 And Happy Thanksgiving!
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October 13, 2014 at 8:59 am
Thank you for your interest. Glad you want to read more.
Happy Thanksgiving to you too. We had our family dinner yesterday. ❤
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October 12, 2014 at 4:22 pm
And this is a jade post! From now one I’m going to refer to the bathroom as the happy house. Beautiful photos!
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October 13, 2014 at 9:08 am
😀 😀 😀
Thank you. I’d forgotten about this term until this past post. I liked it from the start. Now I w.i.l.l. adopt it as well.
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October 13, 2014 at 9:08 am
Meant to add you are a jade blogger. 🙂
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October 13, 2014 at 4:39 am
We all need a happy house close by! 🙂
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October 13, 2014 at 9:23 am
😀 😀 😀
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October 13, 2014 at 6:04 am
That embroidery is absolutely magnificent! I like the sounds of the Happy House 🙂 Thanks for sharing Tess ❤
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October 13, 2014 at 9:24 am
I like the Happy House too. So much nicer than a lot of other labels. 🙂
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October 13, 2014 at 6:09 am
I clicked to post the comment too fast – wanted to add that I am rather going to use the same phrase (Happy House) in the future 🙂
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October 13, 2014 at 9:24 am
😛 Me too.
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October 13, 2014 at 1:59 pm
this certainly was a trip to remember. so much to take in…wow!
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October 13, 2014 at 4:31 pm
It’s interesting how our most basic habits flip into reverse when we travel. Another great travel post here.
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October 14, 2014 at 7:30 am
Indeed. 😀
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October 14, 2014 at 8:08 am
Well Tess, I would love to linger in those gardens, they look absolutely beautiful, but for the crowds I fear. I love ‘Happy House’ but that’s because it’s the name of our local Chinese take away – great food btw – so hopefully I won’t think of the loo next time we order lol 😛 Those silk embroideries are absolutely stunning, as you say, how on earth did they make them? I would have thought they were paintings and would never have questioned it. Another wonderful travel piece my friend, thoroughly enjoyed coming along for this one 🙂 😀 ~(* _ *)~~~
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October 14, 2014 at 1:51 pm
Thanks. Sherri for coming along on this tour. I see what you mean about Happy House. 😀 In your case, you have a draw a line in the sand. 🙂
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October 14, 2014 at 4:52 pm
Haha…yes, definitely 😉 😛 ❤
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October 14, 2014 at 5:48 pm
😛 😛 😛
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October 14, 2014 at 6:20 pm
I adore that red lady. I’m sure I would have been sorely tempted to purchase here. 🙂
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October 14, 2014 at 10:04 pm
I would have taken her home if I could. Up close she was awesome as well…yes, nose to the glass or as close as I dared. 🙂
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October 15, 2014 at 12:00 am
Fantastic post Tess! And what a place the garden is … so beautiful. It looks tranquil and I am sure it is, after dark … less busy with tourism. The funds from which keep it so well preserved, I imagine. What a journey you are on … although I know you’re home, but in a way, writing it all down must take you back! Much love, xoxo
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October 15, 2014 at 7:42 am
Thank you for coming along, Gigi. Yes, the pleasure is all mine. I get to relive this trip all over again as I blog about it. Gosh, there is so much more to come. 😀 😀
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October 16, 2014 at 11:37 am
That garden looks beautiful, and as for that embroidery, wow! I’m always blown away by incredible talent and patience like that. The garden there reminded me of a day trip that a friend of mine took a couple of years ago from the UK across to Monet’s garden in France. She was so looking forward to it and apparently the bus dropped them there, and they were left for 5 hours before being picked up and she said that while the garden was very pretty, it was much smaller than expected, and 1 hour was plenty to spend there. There was no cafe or shop in there to buy any refreshments and they were just stuck there for hours! She was quite cross!
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October 16, 2014 at 10:39 pm
So sorry for your friend. We felt the same way. Thank goodness Lorena got lost. It help all of us gain more time somewhere else. 😀 A first on our China trip.
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October 17, 2014 at 7:22 am
I have just renamed the bathroom in our home – the Happy House, indeed. I love learning the expressions of other cultures. You are indeed pure jade, my blogging friend.
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October 17, 2014 at 10:47 am
And I think you are a jade blogging friend. ❤
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October 18, 2014 at 3:39 pm
I love embroidery (no good at it but always amazed at the kind of effect people can create). Those look amazing. And if the garden looks great too (even if it was full of people…)
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October 19, 2014 at 5:51 pm
❤ ❤ ❤
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October 19, 2014 at 7:58 am
I love following you on your travels. I am in awe of those beautiful silk embroideries and would love to see them. Viewing them here though and reading your colourful decriptions is definitely the next best thing. You have a great wesite!
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October 19, 2014 at 6:04 pm
Thanks so much. Even up close they look more like paintings than embroidery. Absolutely stunning!
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October 20, 2014 at 3:33 am
Keep sending these photos, we have an amazing world.
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October 20, 2014 at 8:08 am
~(*_~)~~
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October 19, 2014 at 7:58 am
A great website too, ha ha.
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October 19, 2014 at 6:05 pm
Shucks, thanks so much. You are too kind I’m sure.
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October 20, 2014 at 11:37 am
Keep their art but dump the food and motels.
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October 20, 2014 at 4:27 pm
::roll: 🙄
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October 21, 2014 at 4:01 am
Love the garden!
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October 21, 2014 at 9:45 am
It was pleasant (aside for the elbowing) but much smaller than we had expected. ❤
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October 24, 2014 at 2:33 pm
What gorgeous embroideries!
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October 24, 2014 at 6:34 pm
They are heavenly. If I hadn’t seen them with my own eyes…
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December 14, 2014 at 3:13 pm
The garden is beautiful.
There are some amazing things they do with silk…
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December 14, 2014 at 3:54 pm
It’s amazing to see beauty through another culture’s eyes. They seem to surround themselves with beauty more than we do.
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